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It’s Not All Bad…. Right?

There are a few holidays a majority of the population dreads, but Valentine’s Day HAS to take the cake. Are you single? In a complicated relationship? Situationship? Just plain not down to celebrate? That’s fine. It’s just any other day and you can make it what you want.

Currently, I’m in a long distance relationship and we rarely ever see each other on holidays unfortunately. We always have to make it up a different time and it’s never really the same. Don’t get me wrong, we still have a good tome, but the magic of the moment is done.

Supposing someone sends you a gift or sweet message it can cushion the blow, but reality is you’re spending this day of love ALONE.

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To get over the Valentine’s day blues you have to treat yourself. Soooo many people went and got their toes done today. Make yourself one of the many. Send yourself flowers, an edible arrangement, or have a self care day with wine, face masks, and a bomb movie. Basically, just plan in advance!

This year I personally slacked. But I have to let you know, I made up for it in the end. It’s currently 9pm I’m relaxed, motivated, and having some much deserved me time. My recommendation for you is to do the same for yourself and elevate each year. We all should aim to outdo ourselves.

It’s been said forever, but be your own valentine. At the end of the day, you’ll always know what you’re into 😉

Have a wonderful holiday, try to recover it in any way possible. By the way, Valentine’s Day rolls around every year next year do like me and be prepared!!!

Valentine’s 2021, we’ve learned from our mistakes and we’re ready!!